Having Sex in Public - Public Lust

By Wicked Temptress

Many couples find sex in public to be a very exciting way to spice up their sex life. For most couples it's the possibility that someone will catch them in the act that gives them a thrill. For others, just having sex in the midst of people who are unaware of what the couple is doing may be enough to get them off. In this article we will explore this fantasy and discuss ways you and your partner may attempt such a thing yourselves. Lets begin by discussing what is best to wear when planning to have sex in public. Obviously for a woman a dress or a skirt is the easiest and most discreet article of clothing to wear for public sex. A man has it rather easy when it comes to what to wear. He can simply unzip his pants or just as easily pull down a loose pair of shorts or pants.

How can you decide what article of clothing is best for you to wear? Well, first you must decide where the act is to occur and how much of a risk you and your partner are willing to take being caught with your pants down. Literally! For example, if you and your partner were out camping, then you may feel comfortable taking a higher risk by getting completely nude to have sex. You could increase the risk of being caught by choosing to have sex on the ground, or against a tree out in the open. Or you could even pleasure each other in a near by lake or similar body of water. It may not sound like much of a risk to have sex in the water, but when you think about it you'll discover that it is. For one thing, it would be completely obvious that you were having sex. For another thing, if someone does happen to catch you (or is coming near to where you and your partner are) it would take you both some time to get out of the water, get to your clothes, and actually put them on. There are other locations to pleasure each other in public of course. Each with a varying degree of risks involved. The amount of risk for each location, or area is difficult to measure as you never know what can or will happen (which is also part of the excitement). However some couples increase this risk by using their car as an ever moving vessel for sex. These couples choose to park their car in various locations, such as parking lots or the side of a road or highway, to have spontaneous sex whenever the mood strikes them. Sex in cars seems to be rather popular for a lot of people. Clothes decisions aren't very important in situations like these. Mainly because you can't plan what to wear for a spontaneous action....you simply wear whatever you're wearing when the event happens to occur.

If you decide to have sex in an area which may be heavily populated, such as a park, then it may be best for the lady to wear her dress or skirt. Again this will depend on how much of a risk you are both willing to take that you may be caught in the act. However, it is certainly the easiest thing to wear for such an occasion.

Obviously the best position, if you're in a heavily populated area, is for the female to sit on the man's lap. She could be facing either way, though if she is facing away from the man it is less obvious that the couple is having sex. Facing away from her partner, she will easily be able to slide onto his cock and make a gliding motion up and down his lap. It's best to start off slow and let your rhythm and speed build as your passion builds. I find that this makes for a much more explosive and satisfying finish.

However, as mentioned above, it's the risk factor that makes public sex so exhilarating for most couples so you do want to take some risk. If you're just starting out, you might want to begin with a small risk factor. That way you can practice getting the hang of things while deciding whether or not you really enjoy public sex without taking too much of a risk of getting caught.

After you've decided whether or not you and your partner are really into public sex then you can gradually raise the level of risk you are both willing to take. You might choose to have sex in more heavily populated areas, or become more obvious at what you and your partner are doing. Perhaps you might undress a bit more than you had before. There are various ways you could increase the risk factor for you and your partner. Use your imagination, be creative. But always keep you and your partner's safety in mind.

It is very important for you and your partner to be open with each other. Be honest when you explain your feelings to your partner. Likewise, they should be honest when they explain their feelings to you. Explain how having sex in public makes you feel. Communicate while trying not to become angry with one another. Having sex in public can have an impact on both a relationship and a person. The effect can be very positive, but it can also be negative. No one should ever feel forced to do this. That is why it's very important for both of you to be honest and work things out together. Having public sex should be a decision you both agree with and are comfortable making. Even if you agree and find later that you've changed your mind for some reason, you should tell your partner right away. The risks involved are something you both have to take, so it should only be done if you are both willing to take those risks.

Don't allow this to have a negative impact on your relationship. It's suppose to be fun for both of you, so keep that in mind. It's something that you or your partner may take time getting use to, so you should both be sensitive to each other's feelings and needs. Don't be upset if your first attempt doesn't turn out like you expected.

Public sex can have an extremely positive effect on one's sex life. If you and your partner are open and honest with each other, sensitive to each other's needs, and work together then your experience should be very beneficial (Not to mention extremely orgasmic!!)